Dying for love, the parents who can’t take alienation any more

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A group set up to battle parental alienation has revealed how many of its members have been driven to the brink of suicide because the fight to see their children has become too much.

The group D.A.D.s (dads against double standards), which has thousands of members, conducted a survey and shockingly scores of people reported they have become suicidal as their children turn against them after divorce or separation.

Andrew John Teague, who started the group less than a year ago with other victims, has also revealed how he has spent hours talking to people back from the edge.

Andrew, from Swansea, said: “Sometimes I’ve spent hours talking to grown men who are breaking their hearts because the courts and the parent with care seem to be deliberately trying to end their access. It is shocking to think though, it’s not only dads, it’s mums, grandparents, and the children too who are facing up to these tragic circumstances.”

Over the last ten months I have watched so many go through so much. And it is heartbreaking.   Parents, grandparents and extended families are fighting relentlessly to be in their children’s lives.
But we are stopped from seeing them by exes, by new partners and by the families of our exes.   Absolutely disgusting behaviour from one human to another.

Recently, the Office for National Statistics said that four years ago suicide among men has reached its highest levels since the early Eighties.

 Another report says parental alienation can seriously affect men’s mental health but also makes it clear that   children caught in a cruel and vicious break-up can develop guilt, sadness, and depression.

And perhaps more revealingly an author’s study in Australia says that each day a parent dies due to the stress and heartbreak of losing  their child in divorce, abduction or  being taken into foster care.

Researching her book, Strength for Parents of Missing Children, Marie White contacted experts in the fields of abduction, parental alienation, grief, and divorce.

She said: “Children do come home, but what if the children come home and their parents aren’t there because they’ve committed suicide?”

In the survey carried out by the D.A.D.s group Paulene revealed: “I was suicidal a year ago and wanted to gas myself in the garage. I was such a mess and didn’t think I could cope. But now I’m here for the children, I love them so much.

Graeme wrote :”Depressed most of the time and have no faith in the law.”

Darren said: “Depressed and close to giving up.”

 David said: I‘m amazed that more parents who’ve had the pleasure of family court haven’t killed themselves. The last six years are right up there on being the worst of my 50 years on this rock.”

Robert said: “Even my son says give up dad, she keeps winning and he is suffering from depression now too,”

Andrew has this message for victims of parental alienation: Don’t die inside speak out – for three and a half years I went through domestic hell and felt   like I was walking on egg shells but now I am free and can speak out with pride.”

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12 thoughts on “Dying for love, the parents who can’t take alienation any more

  1. This happens to just as many mothers and more moms are affected by never seeing their kids than ever before and in most custody mods. I’ve been on the edge several times and literally. I talked w 4 moms on Mother’s Day that wanted to end it.

    1. I’m struggling – big time.. my ex alienated my sones from me on 8th Jan.
      I am VERY close to them both 12 & 14, but ex has turned them against me and now the eldest is telling lies about me
      ANY HELP

    2. THANK YOU! I’m an alienated mom and when I was tricked into a permanent 700 mile separation from my girls, I considered suicide on a daily basis but I couldn’t hang that legacy on my girls. I had never heard of parental alienation at the time, so I had no idea anyone else had ever gone through this.

  2. I’m there,
    can’t see a way forward.
    Can’t work due to long term health matters.
    I’m homeless and no matter where I’ve turned to for help I come up against the usual brick wall.
    Mental health services have failed me, the benefit system have failed me, housing have failed me.
    I sit here today, my eyes puffed and dry, no more tears can come, numb inside.
    I can’t go on like this.
    When you took our children from me, you destroyed me.
    Rejoice in your victory.
    I just can’t do this anymore.

  3. The family law system is a disgrace. Wholly biased, wholly unfair.

    I’ve given up hope of ever seeing my children again.

    Family lawyers or indeed any other practitioner profiting from this system who choose to come anywhere near me will be savaged. I’ve had enough of them.

  4. I been in this hell 4 years my exwife lies all the time my son who’s 13 is completely brainwashed now for sure ! I taught him to skate and play hockey was there in all the young leagues mites, squirts , peewees , now bantams after he turned 11 he didn’t need me to get him ready anymore that was my only time I actually got to interact with him tying his skates and all that, now ha forget it it’s like he has no memory of that and it wasn’t all that long ago ! Every weekend he plays usually Saturday and Sunday I just got home I stand in the same spot I always do behind the goal he shoots at twice , today he didn’t even look at me not once like I’m a fkng monster , but I saw him wave to my exwife and her asshole family you see my parents are dead so it’s only me shes still got her whole fkn family of evil parasites who hate my guts ! Why ? Because I love my son I guess and I wont go away like they want me 2 ! The shit they put in my boys head is pure poison but I cannot do shit about it because I paid lawyers thousands and always got fucked because her little Jewish old bag lawyer is on the board of whatever shes best friends with judges I got creamed in court for doing absolutely nothing!so here we are week after week same ole shit I’m tapped can barely pay rent , my ex wife is remarried living in my house it’s so great ! Now my son who used to take my calls and answer texts no longer does that so I gave that up ! So yes hes a good student he decides he wants to go to private school high school 18 grand a year my exwife actually sends me tuition Bills via email this nightmare is only gonna end one way I’m slowly dieing anyway I can barely walk somedays!what makes people so fkn evil?

    1. “… little Jewish old bag lawyer…” Why has the site admin not deleted this antisemitic dickhead’s comment?

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