Leave messages of love for our alienated children at Christmas

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Are you in the awful position of not being able to wish your child a Happy Christmas?

Many of us are and so often it really isn’t the alienated parent’s fault.

It could be the family courts which the consumerwatchfoundation.com exposed earlier this year for warning victims of parental alienation that telling their child they love them can be dangerous.

We have other parents who cannot say ‘I love you’ in a birthday card … or indeed a Christmas card.

And there are some of us who simply haven’t seen their children, sometimes for decades, because they became caught up in the maelstrom of ruptured hearts and feelings as their relationship fell apart.

Having worked closely in the last year with Andrew John Teague, Sophie David and many others at D.A.D.s (Dads against double standards), the consumerwatchfoundation.com is determined to continue the fight to have parental alienation treated as a crime.

We will fight for what’s right in 2018 too. Join us!

Meanwhile, use our columns to leave a message of love for your child … tell them how you really care and how you are determined to put things right between you.

But remember, Christmas is a time for love and not hate. Please don’t attack your exes or  any of the people who have power over your lives … this column is purely to say ‘I love you…’

Many parents find it so difficult to see their children that despite paying hundreds of pounds in maintenance they are also paying for supervised access. One man says this costs him EIGHTY pounds a time to spend two hours with his child.

Estranged parents – who have perhaps lost all contact because of lies that have been told about them by a bitter ex – are certainly vulnerable and to some suicide can appear to be the only way out.

NACSA,   a lobbying group set up to fight the way the CSA hurt divorced people, actually published an online ‘Book of Death’ listing those who had taken their own lives because of stress and loss.

Sadly though, this type of comment appears on a daily basis on the Dad’s. Against. Double. Standards site highlighting the real despair parents without custody go through:

Drunk and giving up on life, no point any more, never gonna see my daughter grow up into the woman she’ll become…”

Night all hope the drink and my meds work and I don’t wake up …”

GOD finding it really hard to put the Christmas tree up my heart is just not in it this year…”

Andrew John Teague, admin at the site,   said: “There is a phenomenon the world over, parental alienation. Hundreds of thousands are denied access to a loving and meaningful relationship with both parents.”

 

So, let’s find a little bit of happiness at this time of year and simply say those words that matter …

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9 thoughts on “Leave messages of love for our alienated children at Christmas

  1. Christmas is a time for family, for love and forgiveness. It is the celebration of the birth of a very special baby. One who came to take away the sins of the world. Polly and Charlotte, along with Ellie you are my very special babies. I shall always celebrate your birthdays and I shall give thanks for the gift of your lives that was given to me. These are times of great joy and glad tidings. I hope that you know that I love you both very dearly. Mum xx

  2. I Love you my beautiful daughter and amazing son. I miss you both more than you know, and i am still fighting to bring you home Kiyah, I will not give up even though i am fighting a losing battle. I hear your voice and see the hearts you send me daily and they are my motivation to keep going because I know you wouldnt want me to stop fighting and i am incapable of walking away and quitting. It will never be over until you are safe at home where you belong. I love you both so much. See you Soon. Always and Forever to the moon alice and back

  3. Parental Alienation is one of the most extreme forms of child abuse. My son lives with me & has virtually no contact with his mother. I’m often uncomfortable about this but it was ordered by the Family Court. My son receives Xmas presents from his mother and I’m careful to not turn my son against his mother & hope that he will one day resume his relationship with her.

    I’m posting this because no-one should be raising a child to learn about hatred & intolerance, but they do need to be raising their children to understand that not all people act in the best interests of other people & help them develop strategies for engaging/disengaging with these types of people.

  4. I love you lexi and Rylan ….I’m so sorry I can’t be with you today….my heart longs for you both so much….I hope you both have a wonderful Christmas and know that mamma is always thinking about you and my love is always with you….I will never give up on y’all

  5. Chloe Godfrey
    Daddys never stopped loving you princess….
    4 years of not seeing or hearing you hasnt been easy….
    Leons always asking about u but i keep telling him we’ll see you one day hopefully….
    Think about u everyday honey….
    Loved and missed loads….xxx
    Daddy
    Aunty linzi
    Leon
    Aunty laura
    Xxx

  6. Thomas Bradley Swift So sorry yet another year passes without seeing you. Been 15yrs now and its 15 too many. Theres so much you need to know. You deserve the truth. I have it. Love you so much. By the time your 18 on 29th jan you ll know the truth. And know who i am.

    Your Dad

    Kevin Eley. Eley is your birth surname.

  7. Liam and Paxton, you both are on mommy’s mind every second of every day. I sleep with your favorite stuffed animals every night , so I can be close to you some how. I wanted so desperately bad to see you on Christmas. Mommy didn’t and will not celebrate Christmas without you two . I love you both more than anything in the world. I won’t ever give up the fight to bring you back home again. I pray you are healthy and doing ok. My life is completely empty without you guys. Santa came to mama’s house too, he left your gifts in your bedroom. They will be here waiting for you to come home to mama. i love you , too the moon and back. And don’t forget , YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE, MY ONLY SUNSHINE

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